Ken Stringer
Civil Discourse - the lifeblood of civic engagement


Civil discourse can be lively, engaging, passionate—even widely divergent, strongly held views can be discussed reasonably. We embrace and encourage a positive, optimistic—yet realistic—perspective, and the exploration of issues with an eye to finding solutions, exploring opportunities, seeking creative, innovative approaches.
March 7, 2020

Emotions & Civil Political Discourse

When emotions run high, is civility or a civil discussion still possible? Why do we find ourselves reacting emotionally to difficult, complex issues?  How can we control our emotional response in such circumstances?  What’s the […]
March 7, 2020

Restoring Civil Political Discourse

Are we willing to take the steps required to restore civil political discourse?  Are we ready to make the hard choices necessary to re-assert and regain control over how we talk about “politics?”  Do we […]
March 7, 2020

Social Media and Political Discourse

How have we come to be so divided that we can barely tolerate, let alone talk with, someone who’s views are not the same as ours?  Why, in the age of “social” media are we […]
March 7, 2020

Conversation, not Confrontation

What does a civil conversation on a complex, contentious issue sound like?  How does it unfold or progress from start to finish?  Is the goal to achieve agreement?  What if we can’t find any common […]
March 7, 2020

The Assault on Our Civic Contract

What enables us to govern ourselves? How do we go about deciding what we want our government to do—or refrain from doing?  Can we explain clearly to ourselves, or others, what we expect of those […]
March 7, 2020

Lament for America

How have we come to where we seem to be as a country—as Americans?  Why do the things that appear to divide us feel as though they’re multiplying daily?  Do we really have anything of […]
April 16, 2019

Civility and Citizenship

Civility and Citizenship What is the relationship between civility and citizenship? When we talk about being a “good” citizen, what do we mean? How does incivility weaken citizenship? Can we preserve, let alone strengthen, citizenship […]
January 18, 2019

On Civility and Power, Part III

In exploring the relationship between civility and power, this series has sought to explain why we must reject “winning at all costs,” “ends justifying means,” and “might making right” as norms governing our political (and […]
January 18, 2019

On Civility and Power, Part II

How can we have civil conversations about complicated issues? What specific steps can we take to restore trust and confidence in our capacity to solve complex problems? Is it sufficient just to re-establish strong emotional […]
November 9, 2018

On Civility and Power, Part I

What is, or should be, the relationship between civility and power? Is civility compatible with, or even possible in, situations perceived as a struggle for power? Does civil discourse require “neutrality?” How does the loss […]
October 23, 2017
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On Being a Truly Inclusive Community

What does it mean to be a truly “inclusive” community? Is being “inclusive” even possible in a fractious age when we seem all too willing to make sharp, impenetrable distinctions between “us” and “them?” Is […]
June 21, 2017

Introducing US

United Sequim (US) for Sequim Schools is a group that was formed following the Sequim Community Plus meetings that focused on how best to support and promote our schools. The desire to build more positive […]
June 20, 2017
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Friends of Whimsy Park

Whimsy Park is looking for a few (more) good friends! Transforming a vacant lot into a park was a true community effort with a lot of help from a legion of “friends” who contributed their […]
January 31, 2017

Hatred and Civility in Sequim–A Community Conversation

On January 19th, CommunityPlus hosted its latest “Conversation on Our Community,” tackling the difficult subject of hatred. Prompted by a recent incident at the high school, the goal of the conversation was to answer the […]
October 29, 2016

Civility in Our Community

What do we mean by civility—by being civil to each other? Does it really matter if we don’t treat each other with courtesy and respect? How can civility help strengthen our community and enhance our […]